#AlltheSingleLadies | Soar Like an Eagle, Fake It 'Til You Make It

One way to break out of your own self-imposed limitations, take a step out of your comfort zone and build confidence is to play a part. This might sound like it couldn’t work. Like you are just making things up and lying to yourself. Well, that might be the case. But it still works. If you don’t feel confident, fake it and play the part of how you would think and behave if you were confident. Soon you’ll really start to feel confident. The part becomes real.

#AlltheSingleLadies | Soar Like an Eagle, Let Your Creativity Soar

Everyone is a creative person. But after childhood and the teenage years this is sometimes forgotten. Rediscovering your creativity is a good way to improve your confidence in yourself. Creating something is a wonderful but not always easy experience. But when you’re done you not only feel good about yourself. Sometimes you discover new, previously unknown parts of yourself. Being creative is good a way to get to know yourself and your hidden capabilities.

#AlltheSingleLadies | Soar Like an Eagle, Face a Fear

If you face a fear then your confidence takes about ten steps up. And for every time you face a fear you can slowly start to discover that the classic quote “There is nothing to fear but fear itself” was not just another empty cliche.

#AlltheSingleLadies | Don't Block the Flow Series, Friends and Family

Do your friends and family take advantage of your “good nature” and ask you to do too much for them with little or no return of the favor?  Unfortunately, it's not always a “good nature”,  sometimes it is a red light of self-esteem. Something is blocking the natural understanding you have as a goddess being about balance, versus the give and take in any relationship. Have the courage to say, “That’s enough!”

#AlltheSingleLadies | Don't Block the Flow Series, Settling for Less

You see it everywhere – women who settle or say yes to relationships that don’t really work for them because they are essentially convinced they cannot really be treated like the goddesses they are.  You have to realize that until you love yourself, you can't obtain the kind of love you want.

#AlltheSingleLadies | Making the Most of the Season

If you're dreading the holiday season, there are a few things that you can do to make them a little easier. 

Feeling good can do wonders for your self esteem. Buy yourself a new outfit that makes YOU feel good when you wear it.

Get a new hairdo and/or a manicure right before the party date. The natural high from getting something done and looking good will help your party spirit. Just don't go overboard.

Remember, you only live once and life is what you make of it, even at times it may be hard to keep a smile on your face.

#AlltheSingleLadies | Don't Block the Flow Series, Don't Self-Destruct!

Sure indications of blocks in the area of personal and/or spiritual growth are ignoring your intuition or hunches and/or continuation of self-destructive behaviors even when the negative results in your life are very obvious. You must tackle what is necessary to heal the self-esteem issues that harbor such behaviors.