#AlltheSingleLadies | Don't Block the Flow Series, Clutter

Clutter is an example of a block. I’m not saying if you don’t put everything away every time you use it, you are blocked and living in clutter. You aren’t bad or wrong. What I am saying is that if your piles have piles, you can’t remember the last time you saw your appointment book or your telephone bill, you are living with clutter – a physical manifestation of a block.

Make Your Life Anything You Want it to Be #AlltheSingleLadies

This is ultimately the biggest advantage to being a single woman. You have the unique opportunity to mold and shape your life and pursue your dreams.

There are no reasons to settle for second-best and no one else is depending on the choices that you make. Even if your ultimate goal is to marry and settle down, you might as well get your own life in place first.

So go for the brass ring and shoot for the stars. Create the life that you want for yourself and then, if you want one, find a partner who will fit into that life.

Prioritizing the Qualities #AlltheSingleLadies

Too often, women are distracted by their current partners and have little time to consider qualities they want in an ideal partner. Use this time for self-reflection. Consider your past relationships: Why didn't they work out, and what was lacking? More important, reflect on yourself. What are your strengths? What kind of partner do you need to match your temperament? What are your passions? Do you need someone who shares these passions? These reflections will prevent you from making the wrong decisions once you start dating.

Pursuing Your Career #AlltheSingleLadies

Relationships take time and commitment, and women often compromise their careers to make their relationships work. However, today's woman is ambitious and career-driven. Take this opportunity to focus on your career before you marry and start a family. Despite all efforts to remain career-focused, women with families are inevitably distracted by domestic responsibilities. Pursue your career ambitions while you are single. Achievements gained in your career can improve your confidence and shape you as an individual. When you decide to start dating again, this confidence will set you apart from other women.

Developing Your Interests #AlltheSingleLadies

It might be tough being single while your friends are coupling up around you. There is also the discomfort of societal and familial pressure to date and get married. However, succumbing to these pressures might force you to compromise. There are many advantages of being a single woman. Make use of this time to develop your interests and priorities.

Discovering New Things About Yourself #AlltheSingleLadies

Being in a relationship means you have less time for yourself. While you are single, take up hobbies that you have always wanted to pursue. On the surface, pursuing a new hobby seems like a way to fill time. However, it is also a way to discover new things about yourself. 

#AlltheSingleLadies: Don't Worry if You're Single, #TheSISTAHSMinistry

"Don't worry if you're single, GOD IS LOOKING AT YOUR RIGHT NOW

saying, 'I'm saving this one for someone SPECIAL.'"